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Masturbate and its effect

I get lots of questions on
masturbation most especially
from ladies -yes, ladies
masturbate a lot, especially
virgins. Guys also masturbate.

There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who
masturbates most, I need to deal
with a serious issue. Sexual urge for virgins is strong.
What makes it stronger is the
novelty, newness, the mystery
and the hear says about sex. Masturbation is fondling your
genitals consistently to achieve
orgasm. Ladies may stroke their
clitoris while guys rub, massage
or caress their penis. I decided to
give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation
is. Some ladies especiallly non-
virgins use candles, banana, small
bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever
represents a penis and do solo
sex (having sex by yourself). From teenage upward, you will
have a strong desire for sex. It's
a sure sign you are normal and
capable of having and enjoying
sex in marriage. In your 20s it
will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling horny for
no single reason in the world or
go hot on spotting a curvy lady!
You may start noticing shapes and
curves and you have to shake
your head several times to keep the image off. You may get
worked up on watching a
romantic movie and discharge
something. You check up and
discover you are wet. All these
are normal, you haven't committed any sin. So what then do you do when you
get hot and horny? Have sex? I
know you know my answer and
some singles will never be caught
dead sleeping around, so what do
they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and
pleasure through solo sex while
claiming virginity at the same
time. Masturbation is completely
wrong and not the way out. Let
me explain:
1. Masturabation is not done in
isolation. It is done with the
image of someone in mind. It can
be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a
married person, a crush,
someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex
with them while masturbating.
2. For ladies, while inserting all
manner of objects, you may
mistakenly deflower yourself and
also introduce infection into your
genitals and womb. It will be
very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had
sex with man except objects
during your solo sex.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy
sex in future. Millions of women
don't enjoy sex in marriage which
leads to sexual frustration,
adultery, lesbianism and
feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you
won't be able to get it from your
husband. If you are used to
objects in your private part, you
won't have feelings for your
husband's penis. You will always think of something harder,
bigger, longer, larger and
completely unrealistic! Women
who complain their husbands'
penis are too small didn't marry
as virgins. They must have been promiscous as singles.
4. You will not have a good sex
life as a man. You will experience
pre-mature ejaculation and your
wife won't enjoy you leading to
acute sexual frustration in
marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your
wife maximum sexual pleasure.
A woman enjoys sex when the
man can go on for at least 7
minutes before ejaculating.
Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you
may not be able to go more than
a minute before exploding leaving
your wife completely unsatisfied
and frustrated. She may close up,
become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you
having an affair, she having an
affair or both of you having an
affair. Self control before
marriage helps you enjoy sex to
the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long
time and have excellent orgasm
while giving your wife pleasure
too. That is why total virginity
5. If you do not suffer premature
ejaculation, you may have serious
problem with delayed/ retarded
ejaculation. A situation where you
get erection for several hours
without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without
orgasm? Rough masturbation with
your hands kills your ability to
feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It
is hell for a woman to be under a
man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the
woman get pregnant? It's the
reason some women are
seemingly "barren" and can't talk
to anybody out of
embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman
sore, frustrated and hating sex
altogether. You have so much to
lose sexually when you
masturbate. Abstaining from this
degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal
sexual intercourse and enjoy the
pleasures that comes with sex IN
6. You start having sex in the
dream with a known or unknown
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty,
useless and powerless after each
8. You start getting unsatisfied
and wants the real thing. You
fantasize more about sex and
start longing for the real act.
9. You get a warped view of the
opposite sex. You see them as
sexual objects and start having
sex with anything in skirt or
trousers -you become
10. You get damaged, hurt and
broken. These and more are the
consequences of masturbation.
They damage you and shatter you
to pieces! What then should you
do with your sexual urge?

do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures,
pornography videos, pictures and
hot, romantic movies -they are
powerful sexual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say
dirty,lewd and obscene things.
Stop all sexy banters with friends
and say only things that are pure,
holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life,
education and career, there is
more to life than sex.
4. Study the word a lot especially
Psalm 119. When you are filled
with the word, you have no space
for the devil and his demons in
your heart.
5. Pray to God for help
6. Make friends with godly
7. Avoid pornography and
romantic movies.
8. Get busy in kingdom service. Masturbation is wrong, bad,
demonic, destructive and sinful.
Avoid it and end it with speed if
you are deeply involved in it. You can win the fight against

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